Тиран.Выход из отношений.5 правил безопасности

Цель агрессора — постоянно манипулировать жертвой, чтобы она исполняла все его желания. Мужчина-психопат не заинтересован в гармоничных отношениях, ему нужны эмоциональные качели. Женщина, которая хочет избавиться от токсичного общения, должна соблюдать основные правила безопасности.

1. Устранение комплексов

Любовь тирана основана на стремлении к контролю и власти, подавлении личности жертвы. Комплексы, которые есть у вас, помогают мужчине управлять ситуацией. Важно распознать у себя болевые точки и обезвредить их.

Домашний тиран может критиковать любую сторону вашей личности. Задача жертвы — избавиться от психологических травм и комплексов, чтобы обрести самостоятельность. Манипулятор потеряет к вам интерес, если увидит, что прежние приемы больше не работают.

2. Спокойствие — залог успеха

Каждый раз, когда проявляется агрессия человека, сохраняйте внутреннее равновесие. Не реагируйте на его слова эмоционально, избегайте лишних споров. Отношения жертва-тиран построены на вспышках гнева, которые сильно травмируют психику.

Воспринимайте нападки, которые совершает муж-тиран, с юмором. Саморазвитие личности позволит вам увидеть ситуацию со стороны и сделать правильные выводы. Если вы будете хорошо контролировать свои эмоции, уровень агрессии тирана снизится.

3. Квартирный вопрос

При совместном проживании домашний тиран чувствует свою безнаказанность. Он видит, что вы все ему прощаете и остаетесь рядом, несмотря ни на что. Лучше временно пожить у родственников или друзей, чем постоянно терпеть унижения.

Токсичные отношения отнимают у жертвы много сил, негативно отражаются на самооценке. Отдельное проживание поможет вам обрести внутреннее спокойствие, почувствовать себя в безопасности. Если уходить некуда, можно обратиться в центр помощи жертвам домашнего насилия. 

4. Работа с психологом

Отношения жертва-тиран очень устойчивы, поэтому из них трудно выйти без поддержки специалиста. Во многих случаях муж и жена не могут самостоятельно преодолеть кризис в семье. Психология жертвы тирана не позволяет женщине найти выход из критической ситуации.

Специалист поможет вам разобраться в причинах проблемы и принять правильное решение. Невротические отношения часто базируются на страхах, вторичных выгодах, сильной созависимости. После нескольких встреч с психологом ваша жизнь может поменяться в лучшую сторону.

5. Социальная сфера

Жертве необходима поддержка окружающих, чтобы выйти из привычной роли. Психопат старается изолировать жену от общества, препятствует ее встречам с подругами и родственниками. Важно создать около себя круг знакомых, которым можно рассказать про тирана.

Нужно пересилить страх перед этим человеком и осознать, что спастись в одиночку будет очень трудно. Общение с близкими людьми поможет вам обрести веру в себя, восстановить силы и начать новую жизнь. Развод с мужем, который подвергает вас унижениям, станет самым лучшим выходом из сложившейся ситуации.

Многие женщины надеются на то, что тираны могут со временем исправиться. Такая иллюзия задерживает жертву в токсичных отношениях на долгие годы. Вы не сможете исправить человека без его личного желания. Лучше отказаться от общения с ним и оставить печальную историю в прошлом.

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